Shakesville. Yes.

If you're not familiar with Shakesville, I encourage you to get familiar with her.  A great place to start is this open letter she just wrote to Jimmy Fallon.

http://www.shakesville.com/2014/02/i-write-letters.html

Re-boot

So, I've been re-booting a lot of my blogs, and I wasn't sure I would re-boot this one. But, as I've been doing a lot of work with sexual violence, I decided I'd go ahead and use this space to talk about that.

So, the big 3 (sex education, sex workers' rights, and polyamory) have become the big 4, with the added focus of consent.  However, you could view it as the original big 3 simply being subsets of 1 primary issue of consent.

Maybe they should rename the photo

You know that photo of the Kissing Sailor ...

http://cratesandribbons.com/2012/09/30/the-kissing-sailor-or-the-selective-blindness-of-rape-culture-vj-day-times-square/